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If you feel stuck, physical discipline is one heck of a good place to start.
BY KEVIN RATZSCH | AUG 28, 2026 | 5 MINUTE READ
KICKSTART DISCIPLINE
There are a lot of different kinds of discipline.
Spiritual discipline. Mental discipline. Emotional discipline. Financial discipline. Physical discipline.
And if you're in a tough spot in life—if you've lost your edge, gotten comfortable, or maybe never really got the ball rolling in the first place—it can be overwhelming trying to figure out where to start.
My advice?
Start with your body.
Not because physical strength is the most important thing.
It isn't.
But because it's one of the easiest places to start doing hard things again.
DO SOMETHING HARD
Your body has an incredible ability to adapt.
Ask it to lift something heavy, consistently, and it gets stronger.
Run, and your cardiovascular system becomes more efficient.
Practice a movement and your body gets better at performing it.
Your body gets the message:
Apparently, we're going to keep doing this. We'd better get better at it.
And somewhere along the way, something starts happening in your mind too.
You start realizing:
I can do hard things.
I don't have to obey every feeling I have.
I'm tired.
I'm doing it anyway.
I don't feel like training.
I'm training anyway.
I want to quit.
I'm finishing anyway.
And you start stacking something that a man who feels stuck desperately needs.
An earned win.
Then another.
Then another.
Until eventually a thought starts creeping in:
Maybe I'm not stuck.
DISCIPLINE SPREADS
I experienced this in my own life.
As I became more physically disciplined, it didn't stay confined to the gym.
I started taking my Christian walk more seriously.
Prayer became a discipline.
Reading the Bible became a discipline.
Following Christ when I didn't necessarily feel like doing what He was calling me to do became a discipline.
Physical discipline wasn't responsible for my spiritual transformation. Jesus was.
But learning to do hard things—to tell myself no, to show up when I didn't feel like it, to practice something day after day—gave me a framework I began carrying into other areas of my life.
Because discipline isn't something you accomplish.
It's something you practice.
Strength is use it or lose it.
Endurance is use it or lose it.
Patience is use it or lose it.
Self-control is use it or lose it.
Generosity is use it or lose it.
Faithfulness is use it or lose it.
You don't arrive at 40 years old and say:
"Good. I developed discipline. Glad that's done."
You practice it again tomorrow.
YOU CAN BE WORKING HARD AND STILL BE DRIFTING
Years ago, I used to help run FCA sports camps in California. After camp, I'd stick around for a while with friends I'd made over the years.
One time we went surfing.
I wasn't much of a surfer.
And surfing is hard work when you don't know what you're doing.
Paddle out.
Try to catch a wave.
Fall.
Paddle back out.
Try again.
Fall.
Repeat.
I was exhausted.
Eventually I looked back toward the beach and realized I was probably a mile away from where I had started.
I remember thinking:
How in the heck did I get way over here?
I had been working my butt off.
But while I was focused on the next wave, the current had slowly carried me down the beach.
I was working hard.
And I was still drifting.
Life can work like that.
Work.
Kids.
Bills.
Practices.
Deadlines.
House projects.
The next problem.
The next opportunity.
The next wave.
You can spend your entire day paddling and never stop long enough to look back at the shore.
Hard work doesn't guarantee direction.
Sometimes the guy who has drifted isn't lazy at all.
He's exhausted.
He's been working like crazy.
He just hasn't looked toward shore in a while.
WHERE ARE YOU DRIFTING?
Drift rarely announces itself.
It happens a little at a time.
One skipped workout.
One busy week without prayer.
One season where you stop calling your friends.
One more night staring at your phone.
One more excuse.
Nothing dramatic happened.
You drifted.
And here's the thing about drifting:
You drift toward the ditch. You don't drift back to center.
Getting back requires intention.
You have to pick up the oar.
You have to move.
Drift is passive. Growth is intentional.
But the goal isn't to never drift.
The drift is constantly pulling us.
The question is whether we're getting better at recognizing it.
Maybe you used to drift for years before looking up.
Then months.
Eventually, maybe someone who knows you well can see it before you can.
Maturity isn't never drifting. It's recognizing the drift earlier—and correcting course.
That's another reason we need other people in our lives.
And it's another reason I think physical discipline can be such a powerful place to begin.
Get out of bed.
Walk into the gym.
Do something hard.
Come back.
Then do it again.
You're moving.
BUT DON'T CONFUSE THE STARTING POINT WITH THE DESTINATION
There's no shortage of people telling men to get ripped, make more money and dominate life.
I believe men should be strong.
I believe men should work.
I believe we should compete.
I believe there's something incredibly valuable about pushing our bodies and discovering what we're capable of.
But a stronger body doesn't automatically make a stronger man.
You can have abs and be selfish.
You can be wealthy and have no generosity.
You can be successful and absent from your children's lives.
You can control every calorie you eat and have no control over your anger.
You can be physically disciplined and spiritually empty.
So what does it actually mean to become a stronger man?
Strong enough to work.
Strong enough to rest.
Strong enough to lead.
Strong enough to listen.
Strong enough to provide.
Strong enough to give.
Strong enough to compete.
Strong enough to lose.
Strong enough to tell himself no.
Strong enough to admit when he's wrong.
Strong enough to stand when he needs to stand.
Strong enough to kneel when he needs to kneel.
The workout is good.
The strength is good.
The competition is good.
The earned wins are good.
But never confuse the starting point with the destination.
DON'T DO IT ALONE
There's one more problem.
Doing hard things is hard.
Doing hard things alone is harder.
Most men don't have an information problem.
We know a lot of the things we should probably be doing.
Get up.
Train.
Pray.
Read.
Call your friend.
Put the phone down.
Be present with your wife.
Play with your kids.
Get your finances in order.
Go to bed.
Do it again tomorrow.
But knowing and doing are very different things.
And sometimes walking into a room and saying:
"My spiritual life has gotten stale. I've lost my edge. I'm not the husband and father I thought I'd be at this age, and I need some guys to help me figure this out."
...is an enormous barrier.
So don't.
Just walk through the door and work out with some guys.
Train.
Compete.
Laugh.
Do something difficult.
Come back next time.
Relationships form.
Conversations happen.
And maybe those earned wins start spilling into the rest of your life.
Maybe one of those guys even notices when you're starting to drift before you do.
For the 25-year-old, maybe it's about becoming the man he's always wanted to be.
For the 40-year-old, maybe it's about getting that man back.
For the 60-year-old, maybe it's realizing he's not done becoming him.
You don't have to fix everything tomorrow.
Pick up the oar.
Start moving.
One workout.
One prayer.
One decision.
One earned win at a time.
Start with your body.
Stack earned wins.
Stop the drift.
Don't do it alone.
And never confuse the starting point with the destination.